6 Keys: A Framework for Building Relationships with Kids

Building real connection with kids isn’t something we’re ever “done” learning. It’s a practice — one that asks us to slow down, listen deeply, and keep showing up with honesty and care.

6 Keys offers a simple, heart-centered framework for navigating the messy, beautiful work of relationship.

Inside, you’ll find six essential practices — Listening, Speaking, Building Trust, Repair Work, Navigating Triggers, and Lowering Expectations — each designed to help you meet your child (and yourself) with more understanding, empathy, and ease.

This isn’t a rulebook.
It’s an invitation to grow — together.
To unlearn control and practice consent.
To build relationships rooted in respect, repair, and radical self-acceptance.

Whether this feels like a reminder or a whole new way of seeing things, 6 Keys will help you come back to what matters most: connection.

Includes:

  • Practical prompts and reflection questions
  • Hands-on guidance for everyday connection
  • A compassionate approach to communication, trust, and repair

Connection is an art — one we’re all still learning.

This guide shares six keys we use to build trust, repair, and communication that actually works. You’ll explore how to:

  • How to listen to understand yourself and your child.

  • The first step in speaking without triggering another person.

  • The foundation of trust building.

  • The importance of repair work and how to do it.

  • Navigating triggers.

  • Lowering expectations (dropping demands).

Ready to build stronger connections?

Start exploring the 6 Keys today.

Practical tools for real relationships.

Learn the 6 Keys to deeper trust and connection.