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A practice ground for empathy and autonomy, where young people learn to listen, negotiate, and express their needs safely.
A mirror for your own deschooling work, helping you notice old patterns, triggers, and conditioning with compassion rather than shame.
A pathway back to connection, where disagreements become opportunities for deeper trust rather than ruptures in the relationship.
You'll learn how to...
- stay steady when things get loud - recognize the actual root of a conflict (spoiler: it’s usually not the toy) - move from referee → mediator → guide - decode what your kids’ behavior is communicating - support repair without shame - shift the culture of your home from “who’s right?” to “what’s needed?” All in a format that’s simple, accessible, and usable in real life.
Conflict can be a bridge, not a breakdown.
Your presence is the most powerful tool in the room. Here’s how to anchor it.
$33.00
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What’s inside the guide
1. Why Kids Fight Understanding connection bids, power struggles, hurt, and real disagreements. 2. The Four Faces of Conflict With examples, languaging, and reflection prompts for each. 3. Your Role as the Adult Grounding practices, nervous-system awareness, and step-by-step support. 4. Conflict Resolution Flow A clear map you can follow when the room heats up. 5. Preventing Recurring Conflicts Environmental, relational, and rhythm-based shifts that reduce friction. 6. A Full Workbook Section Reflection pages, pattern trackers, connection maps, and “try this at home” practices. 7. Scripts + Language Templates Real-life phrases to help you stay connected without collapsing or controlling. Everything in here was designed to be used in real homes, with real kids, in real moments. No fluff. No scripts. Just clarity, presence, and practice.
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Sibling conflict isn’t a sign something’s broken. It’s a sign something is ready to grow.
$33.00
What changes after this guide?
- Fights feel less personal - You pause before reacting - Your kids feel safer expressing big emotions - Repair becomes something natural, not forced - The tension in the home softens - And you start feeling proud of how you show up — even when things get hard No more walking on eggshells. No more feeling like the “bad guy.” No more parenting from panic. You become the adult who brings safety into the room. Your kids become the humans who learn to stay connected through conflict. That’s the transformation. This isn’t about eliminating conflict. It’s about making conflict safe enough for connection to grow.
Conflict happens. Connection is a choice.
Your kids don’t need perfection — they need presence. This guide helps you bring more of it.
$33.00
Meet the Creators
Radical Learning is a movement for self-directed education, youth liberation, and reimagining how we live and learn together. We support parents, educators, and changemakers to unlearn coercive patterns and rebuild trust through connection-centered learning. Founded by Becka Koritz and Sari González — unschooling mamas, facilitators, and lifelong advocates for youth rights — Radical Learning exists to challenge schoolish thinking and grow something freer, braver, and more human — together.