See the pattern.

Shift the loop.

Find your calm.

Begin where chaos meets compassion.

Download The Chaos Map and start transforming tension into understanding.

$12.00

Understanding and Preventing Repetitive Conflicts

Tension. Explosions. Tears. Moments that keep looping — even when you’re trying your best. You calm one fire, and another flares up. The Chaos Map helps you understand why. It’s a visual and reflective tool that reveals the rhythm beneath conflict — how small activations build, tension rises, chaos erupts, and calm eventually returns. When you can see the pattern, you can start to change it.

Bring the Chaos Map home

Start mapping what fuels conflict — and what helps you land again.

What you’ll find inside

- Map out your family’s unique pattern of calm, activation, and landing. - Recognize what fuels conflict — and what helps prevent it. - Understand what’s really happening beneath the behavior — for both you and your kid. The Chaos Map gives you a simple way to connect the dots between those repeating moments, helping you move from reaction to awareness — and from chaos to connection. This workbook is for parents and caregivers who want more peace, more understanding, and more choice in the hardest moments. It’s not about control. It’s about clarity. Simple, grounding, and instantly useful. A small tool with the power to change how you see everything.

Change the pattern today

Start seeing the hard moments that repeat — and turn them into opportunities for understanding and repair.

About the Creators

Radical Learning is a movement for self-directed education, youth liberation, and reimagining how we live and learn together. We support parents, educators, and changemakers to unlearn coercive patterns and rebuild trust through connection-centered learning. Founded by Becka Koritz and Sari González — unschooling mamas, facilitators, and lifelong advocates for youth rights — Radical Learning exists to challenge schoolish thinking and grow something freer, braver, and more human — together.